Some people don't have the height of eloquence to understand what i said. I'm saying this because I'm afraid that one might take it differently than what is suppose to.
I understand your lack of observation and thinking skills, i am not a good one myself but just try.
Simple, i have a very simple advice for you. Don't take things personally.
You are not the only person in this world, you are not unique.
Just take it as a pat at the back and a knee your groin.